Her dad, she saw now, had never been acting alone. The Holy Spirit had been controlling his life all along.
The package from her mom arrived the following day, and Ronnie knew her mom had done what she’d asked. She brought the large envelope to the kitchen table and tore it straight across the top, then dumped the contents on the table.
Nineteen letters, all of them sent by her dad, all of them ignored and unopened. She noted the various return addresses he’d scrawled across the top: Bloomington, Tulsa, Little Rock…
She couldn’t believe she hadn’t read them. Had she really been that angry? That bitter? That… mean? Looking back, she knew the answer, but it still didn’t make sense to her.
Thumbing through the letters, she looked for the first one he’d written. Like most of the others, it was printed neatly in black ink, and the postmark had faded slightly. Beyond the kitchen window, her dad was standing on the beach with his back to the house: Like Pastor Harris, he’d begun to wear long sleeves despite the summer heat.
Taking a deep breath, she opened the letter, and there, in the sunlight of the kitchen, she began to read.
Dear Ronnie,
I don’t even know how to start a letter like this, other than to say that I’m sorry.
That’s why I asked you to meet with me at the café, and what I wanted to tell you later that night when I called. I can understand why you didn’t come and why you didn’t take my call. You’re angry with me, you’re disappointed in me, and in your heart, you believe I’ve run away. In your mind, I’ve abandoned you and abandoned the family.
I can’t deny that things are going to be different, but I want you to know that if I were in your shoes, I would probably feel much the way you do. You have every right to be angry with me. You have every right to be disappointed in me. I suppose I’ve earned the feelings you have, and it’s not my intent to try to make excuses or cast any blame or try to convince you that you might understand it in time.
In all honesty, you might not, and that would hurt me more than you could ever imagine. You and Jonah have always meant so much to me, and I want you to understand that neither you nor Jonah were to blame for anything. Sometimes, for reasons that aren’t always clear, marriages just don’t work out. But remember this: I will always love you, and I will always love Jonah. I will always love your mother, and she will always have my respect. She is the giver of the two greatest gifts I’ve ever received, and she’s been a wonderful mother. In many ways, despite the sadness I feel that your mother and I will no longer be together, I still believe it was a blessing to have been married to her for as long as I was.
I know this isn’t much and it’s certainly not enough to make you understand, but I want you to know that I still believe in the gift of love. I want you to believe in it, too. You deserve that in your life, for nothing is more fulfilling than love itself.
I hope that in your heart, you’ll find some way to forgive me for leaving. It doesn’t have to be now, or even soon. But I want you to know this: When you’re finally ready, I’ll be waiting with open arms on what will be the happiest day of my life.
I love you,
Dad
“I feel like I should be doing more for him,” Ronnie said.
She was sitting on the back porch across from Pastor Harris. Her dad was inside sleeping, and Pastor Harris had come by with a pan of vegetable lasagna that his wife had made. It was mid-September and still hot during the day, though there’d been an evening a couple of days earlier that hinted at the crispness of autumn. It lasted only a single night; in the morning the sun was hot, and Ronnie had found herself strolling the beach and wondering whether the night before had been an illusion.
“You’re doing all you can,” he said. “I don’t know that there’s anything more you could be doing.”
“I’m not talking about taking care of him. Right now, he doesn’t even need me that much. He still insists on cooking, and we go for walks on the beach. We even flew kites yesterday. Aside from the pain medication, which makes him really tired, he’s pretty much the same as before he went to the hospital. It’s just…”
Pastor Harris’s gaze was full of understanding. “You want to do something special. Something that means a lot to him.”
She nodded, glad that he was here. In the past few weeks, Pastor Harris had become not only her friend, but the only person she could really talk to.
“I have faith that God will show you the answer. But you have to understand that sometimes it takes a while to be able to recognize what God wants you to do. That’s how it often is. God’s voice is usually nothing more than a whisper, and you have to listen very carefully to hear it. But other times, in those rarest of moments, the answer is obvious and rings as loud as a church bell.”