But I really wanted to see this through. The truth was I didn't believe I was ever meant to be an insecure person, and that was because for the most part I wasn't. I believed in my own intelligence; I believed in my own common sense; I believed that my personality, albeit quirky, was a good one; I believed that I was capable; I believed that I could do whatever I set my mind to. I wanted to believe that if someone didn't like me, then that someone wasn't worthy of my time.
I believed in me.
I believed in all the things written within me, I'd just somehow along the way stopped believing in my book jacket. I don't know why. But I don't think that was ever meant to happen. I don't think I was ever meant to be the kind of person who questions her own adequacy; who allows anyone to make her think she's lacking in some way.
But there I was. That's how I felt.
And I was tired of moaning and whining and complaining about it to myself. I'd watched my beautiful young mother battle through cancer and lose that fight. Life was short. Too short to spend it hating a part of yourself, and not doing something to get your confidence back. Too short to not be living it.
Sex was a massive part of life and living. I felt unqualified in it and there was someone who could give me a little practical experience to build my confidence and take me closer to that woman I believed I was always meant to be.
So, after lunch, I had every intention of calling Nate and asking him my question again. There was no fire from the whisky to keep my courage ablaze. There was just me and my determination to become a woman who liked herself … all the way through.
Turns out, I didn't need to wait until after lunch to ask my question.
Not only did Elodie have an extra person to feed in Dee, but Nate had dropped by Cam's earlier that day to hang out, and he ended up with an invitation to Sunday roast as well. Not that Elodie cared. With the Nichols family it was always 'the more, the merrier.'
It did mean, however, that I found myself standing outside on Elodie and Clark's tiny terrace at the back of their house, enjoying a warm spring day with Jo while the others were inside.
I was waiting for Nate, and my nerves were jumping all over the place. Thinking of the moment when I'd have to repeat my request to him, I nervously chugged an entire glass of water.
'Are you okay, Liv?'
I glanced, wide-eyed, at Jo. She was watching me, appearing concerned.
'You seem wired.'
Taking in her expectant expression, I suddenly wanted to tell her everything. The words crawled up my throat and got stuck as my heart pounded hard.
'Liv?'
For all my determination, I grew very unsure as I gazed at my friend. What if Nate and I starting this thing really was a bad idea for us all? 'I have this friend,' I blurted out. 'From work. He laid this dilemma on me and you know what I'm like, I like to have the right answer.'
Jo grew thoughtful. 'Okay. What's the dilemma?'
'He has this group of friends. They're all close, but there's a girl in that group that he likes and they both want each other, but with their histories they don't know where something between them could lead. They're also worried how it'll affect their group.'
I tensed when I finished talking, attempting to pretend that Jo didn't look as if she didn't believe for one second the dilemma was the dilemma of a colleague. I waited for her to call me out.
'Well' – she heaved a sigh – 'I think if your friend likes this girl he should go for it.'
Relief flooded me and I felt myself relax. Jo wasn't going to out me.
Great.
'You think?'
A reassuring little smile played on her lips. 'If he really wants to go there and it feels right for him, then he should. No one knows where a relationship is ever going to lead. We go into these things blind and as it progresses, as you get to know each other, the light starts streaming in. As for the group of friends … well, if they're as close as you say they are, then they'll understand. They'll go with it and they'll handle it, whatever happens.'
I drew in my breath as Jo reached for my hand. Her eyes told me she saw through my subterfuge, and the comforting squeeze she gave me told me she had my back.
I sort of, kind of, loved the heck out of her in that moment.
'There you are,' Cam said as he slid open the French doors and stepped out onto the patio, followed by Nate.
I smiled in greeting, my nerves starting up again at the sight of Nate, and I let him, Jo, and Cam carry the conversation as they sipped chilled glasses of Coke.
'Peetie and I were talking about visiting home for a long weekend in a few weeks' time,' Cam said to Nate. 'We thought all of us' – he gestured to everyone – 'could go. We could rent a house, split it six ways.'