She appreciates the fact I know and understand at any given moment what she wants. She does not get this freedom and presence from any other man. I’m the guy!
I’m was never desperate to fuck her.
This, in itself, says more than anything about the type of man I am. I can induce insane levels of sexual desire in her and myself, but I am controlled enough to resist.
If this was any other girl, she would have gotten bored a long time ago. This is the difference in identifying what a particular woman wants.
Identifying leads to success.
Being stupid…does not.
Every man is intelligent if he chooses to be.
What do you choose?
Seductive Discreetness:
When a nice guy is interacting with her and catering to her every need, without any fluctuation in vibe, boredom is created. Suspense is drained, and she must try to think of the kindest way to get away from the most boring man in the world.
So, you’re at a bar of a Saturday night, you’re enjoying yourself, taking in the atmosphere, chatting to your buddies, and getting yourself amped up to go “pick-up” some chicks after watching 500 YouTube videos.
You start becoming aware of the guys who are already attempting to hit on girls. These guys, for the most part stand out like a sore thumb. Many are loudly expressive and politely latching onto every different part of her elbow to get this minutes escalation in.
Meanwhile, even if the girl likes this guy who is clearly making an effort for her, she must think of some way to brush him off. He is not making it easy for her to be seduced, even if she wants to, he is not showing intelligence to her needs, and to the needs of the social environment. This is where sexual intelligence comes in.
Now, let’s say I’m in middle of this social environment, also interacting with a girl sexually…you see nothing. I don’t even exist on your radar.
I hear it all the time from my friends, that when I’m interacting with a girl, it seems like nothing is going on. There is no obvious signs to the outside world that we are going to be having sex in 56 seconds.
This, as you can imagine makes it quite effortless to go up and begin interacting with women who are surrounded by guys, or involved with guys.
Now, let’s be clear, when I say it’s not obvious to anyone else, if I was there and a guy came in behaving as I do, then yes, it’s obvious as I can understand where he is coming from and the principles he’s apply.
This all comes down to understanding, which is what I intend on sharing with you in every piece of content I release.
“Chris WTF, you literally did NOTHING, how are you leaving together already”
I heard the above comment only this weekend, and tends to be repeated quite a lot.
Before I delve into the specifics of the above seduction, let’s look at some things to gain further clarity.
I generally implement intense, laid back, and discreet seductions in pretty much every case. There is many reasons for this.
Firstly, let’s look at what turns women on, fundamentally:
Emotional Impact.
This is something that I wish every ‘nice guy’ out there understood.
A woman is only as attracted to you, as the severity of the emotions you can instil in her.
Women crave excitement, spontaneity, and the fear of the unknown, this turns them on, and literally makes them wet.
When a nice guy is interacting with her and catering to her every need, without any fluctuation in vibe, boredom is created. Suspense is drained, and she must try to think of the kindest way to get away from the most boring man in the world.
I like to compare it to two different scenarios. You can either be the gentle boat ride on the lake, or you can be the world’s greatest roller coaster. Now, what is going to scatter her emotional frequency up, down, and around?
I’m presuming you said rollercoaster, so yes, right answer.
Now, with this in mind, I do not mean for you to burst in the room and run around frantically giving women dead arms, nuggies, telling her she sucks, then confessing your love for them…because this is not stemming from understanding, instead utilizing many of the ‘Pick-up Artists” techniques, but…still better than the nice guy act, in terms of results.
So, we have established, women respond to emotional stimulation, not logical. With this, let’s move to the next part.
The majority of human beings who walk this earth are heavily rooted within societies beliefs and ways of behaviour. The consensus is out, which states this is right, and this is wrong, so only do what we say is right, and avoid what is wrong, even if internally it feels right on every level.
This, is how we live.
We walk around in the prison of society, being told we have freedom, when really its bullshit, as it’s a freedom based on fear, the fear of what other members of this society thinks of us. This keeps most of us in check and in line with the rights and wrongs of mankind’s largest prison, never even questioning the escape route.
I am going to assume, as you are reading this, you have already broke out of this prison, or are in the process. This internal freedom, when you offer it to a woman, or anyone else for that matter, they desire it, as it’s an internal knowing.
This applies to sexual interaction and the power of discreet seduction HUGELY!
She’s such a Slut!
As we are all aware of, women have a raw deal when it comes to being sexual. They are encouraged to express it through body language and clothes, but frowned upon for acting on it. This is where slut shaming comes into the picture.
In order to be a great lover and seducer of women, you MUST understand the internal struggles they suffer. How else can you grant them freedom?
If you fuck her that night then fuck all her sisters and cousins, society will hold a parade for you, and don you as a cool-ass motherfucker; ‘The Man’, ‘the player’ or ‘the pimp’.
Now let’s switch roles, and it’s the woman who has sex with all your cousins friends and brothers…instantly she is a slut! She is called upon by the hierarchies of society and put to shame in a an absolute bashing of her identity. The word slut is used by men, but celebrated by women!
Women, as an entity, all want and the freedom to engage in sexual desire. They are no different to us men in that capacity. So when one of their kind goes off and rejoices in sexual exploration and promiscuity, the others get angry, and jealous; ‘If we cant have sex when we want, then she can’t. She must be punished and put back in the box’.
(I am not referring to all women in this example, but in my experience the majority, as it is the only ‘normal’ response to save face and remain socially intact)
Lets face it, sex is awesome, its natural, and it is very good for us, but women, as I said, must keep their social behaviour in check if they want to hold their image within their group or tribe.
Understanding THIS, allows you to understand the power of discreet seduction.
How discreet and sexual intelligence applies to emotional impact, and social pressure.
When you tie in the principles of emotional impact and societies pressures, lump them together, and play with them, profound effects occur on a primal and instinctual nature.
Wanting something your told is bad for you, breaking all the rules.
This in itself creates masses of tension and mischievous excitement.
A Seduction:
Discreetness in action
I was speaking with my friend at a bar this weekend. We had been there about an hour, when I saw an absolutely gorgeous girl strut in with her blue skin tight jeans showing her incredible feminine features. She bounced it which such playfulness, smiling ear to ear.
I instantly fell in love.
She was a worker in another bar, and had just finished her shift, so was out for the night.
I observed her for a few seconds, and saw she was in a group, with one guy who was particular close. He could of been a boyfriend or just a friend who wanted to be her boyfriend.
At this moment in time I didn’t really care, as all I could feel was how fucking intoxicatingly beautiful she was.
After stopping mid-conversation with my friend in order to study this girl with amazement, he cut me off by laughing; “ha ha dude, go on, ill mind your drink”
I nodded to him in a daze, and walked directly over, having zero clue what I was about to say.
I moved around to the back of the group where she was positioned at the corner of the bar, placed my hand slowly on her lower back. She turned and we locked eyes…
“ehhhh….Hi?” I said in a slightly confused manner.
She smiled a little oddly and responded with “Hello?”
Me: (leaned in a whispered) “Jesus….look at you”
Her: hahaha I hope that’s a good thing
I positioned myself just outside of the group, leaned against the bar and nodded my head to signal her to turn and move a little towards me. She did.
At this point the tension was palpable.
I extended my hand without saying anything, she met my hand with her warm velvet like touch. At this point, I smiled and simply said “mmmmm” while shaking my head thinking “GOD FUCKING DAMN I AM GOING TO DEVOUR YOU”.
I pulled her in slightly towards me. Take note that on the surface this all looked incredibly innocent. Nothing visually obvious was happening, but between us, in this bubble of sexual energy, and solid eye contact, was a grenade of orgasms that was about to go boom.